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Comment on The One Night Stand in Las Vegas by Chad Daring

Chad Daring — Fri, 16 Sep 2011 22:32:44 +0000

Great story, great advice, kudos on the Singaporean notch, Asian is still on my to-do list.

Comment on The One Night Stand in Las Vegas by Timothy

Timothy — Fri, 16 Sep 2011 21:43:08 +0000

Vegas is somewhat overrated. I don’t gamble, so it’s about hanging with my boys a couple of times a year. We’ve done the bachelor thing there too. It’s great for bachelor parties, etc. because that’s how it’s set up – as an adult playground. People can be in a certain mindset when they’re there – willing to do something they might not at home. You have to hunt/luck into someone like that, like you and your boy did.

Comment on Brazilian Girl – Part III by Timothy

Timothy — Thu, 14 Apr 2011 20:27:37 +0000

The other factor to consider when marrying a foreign national is children and divorce. Brazilians in particular. Suppose she moves here and you marry. Children are inevitable. At which time the relationship goes sour, she will take your child back to Brazil behind your back, or under the pretense of a “vacation” to visit her family, and simply not come back. Brazil simply doesn’t recognize American marriages. She can divorce you without your consent and remarry someone else. You may never be able to see your kid again. There was a high-profile case of this in the media recently involving a New Jersey man, but there are hundreds of other such cases that didn’t get publicity. Think about it…

Comment on Brazilian Girl – Part II – Headed back to Brazil by Brazilian Girl – Part III « GREENDROPPINGS

Brazilian Girl – Part III « GREENDROPPINGS — Thu, 14 Apr 2011 04:53:20 +0000

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Comment on Brazilian Girl – Part III by Peter Phoenix

Peter Phoenix — Wed, 13 Apr 2011 23:05:37 +0000

run homie!!

Comment on Brazilian Girl – Part III by Pete

Pete — Wed, 13 Apr 2011 20:08:41 +0000

Sorry pal, dont wanna mess in your private life but this sounds like a heavy case of one-itis and dependecy. Google the term “Maria Passaporte”. Is she one of them?

Even if not – is she worth all the pain? Come on. I have the philosophy that in relationsships things either happen on MY TERMS – or not at all.

I don’t like suffocating attention, coercion and “Big brother” skypeism. I tell girls that and if they dont get it I’m off.

I suggest you take a break from her, fuck 12 different girls and then see what happens.

If you really don’t feel ready to get married then DONT DO IT. Never ever.

If you want to know whether a woman qualifies as marriage material take her on a harsh camping trip out in the boonies for a couple weeks. If she complains about anything more than once, she’s out.

Comment on Brazilian Girl – Part III by sofia

sofia — Wed, 13 Apr 2011 20:04:20 +0000

if there’s any doubt as to the feasibility of you being a marriage prospect for her, end it before it’s too late! long distance is a hard emotional investment as it is, and when she’s clearly articulating her terms it would be unfair to mislead her. i get that it’s challenging especially when her family is involved, but it would be more disastrous (and you might be plagued by the guilt) if she moved over, had no one, you guys broke up, and then she just had to be sent back home.

speaking as someone who moved to another country for a man, i can say that i did not understand the reality in advance of being alone a lot of the time and not knowing anyone. i relied on him for everything, and could sense my burdensomeness at times.

Comment on Brazilian Girl – Part III by Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 13 Apr 2011 19:15:14 +0000

Cool story, and I pay you homage for sharing it.

Here is what will happen:

1) The two of you will continue this charade for another few months.

2) Eventually you will have a big fight and you will break it off. You will congratulate yourself at how well you played the game, how you refused to be manipulated, how you are not a chump like everyone else.

3) You will go on a tear, banging everything in sight. More congratulations.

4) You will start to miss your Brazilian. It will be imperceptible at first, then slowly grow until you cannot get her out of your mind. You will start to spend every night imagining her by your side.

5) You will find some pretext to re-establish contact with her. Some bureaucratic issue or something of that nature.

6) Skipping to the end: Marriage + Children. The species propagates itself, nature wins again, the mother-in-law wins again.

7) The end.

Comment on “We go through too much bullshit just to mess with these drunken hot girls” by Solo

Solo — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 19:10:13 +0000

I agree with Willy

When the buying temperature is that high, you have to do it then there.
I’ve never done it in the bathroom but hey that’s a place.
Numbers don’t mean shit especially in that type of situation. If she was sober though then maybe…..

Comment on “We go through too much bullshit just to mess with these drunken hot girls” by greendroppings

greendroppings — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 18:41:57 +0000

@Willy – Tried to get her to bounce, but would have had to evade her 2 obstacle friends.