So I had this one female pickup blogger (who has since made her blog, private, wtf) leave a comment recently where she said
“You must be very good looking. I get the vibe from you that your game is very low-key for the amount of ass you appear to be getting. Then again you aren’t that descriptive on your actual game.”
Firstly, thank you for the compliment.
But it had me thinking about my ‘game’, I try not to get too Mystery-like about it, making every ‘pickup’ a scientific process. My goal in meeting women, (or meeting anyone for that matter) is to have more of a ‘natural’ flow, with a few main goals in an interaction, such as avoiding school/work banter early on, keeping things entertaining and ideally emotional, and if I’m talking to a woman, to get her feeling comfortable and somewhat excited about our interaction through teasing, smiling, and friendly, confident eye contact.
Having said that, is my game low-key? I’m not sure… I don’t know what the opposite of that would be, dying my hair in a pink mohawk, wearing a white blazer, and running around the club with gambits and cube routines? If that’s the case, then yes, my game is low-key. Not to say I don’t like gambits, though. I think the ring routine is an interesting one which I use from time to time.
The problem for me with game is that I get too stuck in my head if I’m thinking about it too much. What’s best for me is to have a couple of openers, a story that comes to mind, and a reminder to tease and be playful.
Game is a never-ending process for me. Some nights I go out and I feel on fire, and other nights are a lot more difficult. I still get the occasional one-itis, the fails to close, and then there are times when I’m on a crazy streak and everything is flowing naturally. The ebbs and flows.



What I meant was that it seemed like your game was integrated into your life instead of your life integrated into your game. Which is a good thing.
Are you good looking? Do you have status?
I’ll admit right now that my game is mediocre at best. I get girls based more on looks and status.
@ Vincent – I think we are in similar boats. I would like to think I’m good looking, I don’t have all that much status in New York, and my game is mediocre as well. Checked out your blog, looks good.
@ Vasafaxa – OK cool – no offense was taken, thanks for the comments and keep blogging.
Good job pointing out the ebbs and flows. I’m going through the same shit. Some nights I feel like I’m on fire, some nights I’m just ehhh.
I actually haven’t done too much reading and studying on game outside of Roosh, I definitely feel like I get most girls off of just looks, maybe a little status for closer social circle types.